June 1st, 2011 @ Amber St. Clare

After recently reading Deborah Sundahl’s Female Ejaculation & The G-spot, and watching the DVD version of it, I noticed that in both resources they mention a G-spot toy called The Crystal Wand, which is a lightweight acrylic dildo meant for G-spot stimulation in women, or P-spot stimulation in men. In the DVD, I saw women stimulating their G-spots using this toy, and in Sundahl’s book she mentions that it is an effective G-spot dildo that aids in helping women find and stimulate their own G-spots. I did a little research online and found out that The Crystal Wand is created by Love Nectar, created by Cynthia Lamborne who designed the Crystal Wand, and is an intimacy coach and leader in Tantra and sacred sensuality, including female ejaculation. Cynthia sent me a Crystal Wand of my own to try, and I was beyond excited to give it a go. The Crystal Wand dildo comes in both a clear acrylic, or a purple translucent acrylic. Both look similar in shape to a letter S, and the toy is very lightweight. I liked this because a lot of times with G-spot stimulation my hand gets sore from holding a heavy dildo, but the Crystal Wand was so light in my hand. One end of the dildo is rounded, the other end is rounded to a soft point. The pointed end is great for anal stimulation and P-spot stimulation in men, while the rounded end is meant for G-spot stimulation. I love the design, the curved S shape made the toy easy to hold, and because the toy isn’t too big in diameter (it measures in at 7/8 of an inch) it could fit a variety of women, even those who have trouble using large toys or have difficulty with insertion. Also, acrylic is easy to clean, all you need is anti-bacterial soap and water, and it works well with water-based lubricants. It’s also beautifully smooth to the touch.
The Crystal Wand comes in a pretty velvet drawstring pouch, which you can use for toy storage, and it comes with an instructional manual that gives you tips on how to use the toy. The toy also features the Love Nectar logo on it, the design is pretty and neat. I have short fingers, so it’s really hard for me to try and stimulate my G-spot manually, I have to use a toy to find and stimulate it. Most G-spot dildos tend to be big and bulky, or they can be heavy and uncomfortable to hold. I found the Crystal Wand to be an awesome fit for me! It can be hard finding your G-spot if you can’t actually feel it with your fingers, and since every woman’s body is different the G-spot isn’t always found in the exact same “spot”, it can be just inside of the vaginal opening, or it can be further back along the front vaginal wall. The G-spot is the urethral sponge, which feels like a slightly ridge area inside of the vagina, as you stimulate the G-spot it swells and engorges with ejaculate and when you continue to stimulate it, you can ejaculate by pushing out with your pelvic muscles. Many women enjoy this type of stimulation and really like the feeling of a G-spot orgasm, which I have noticed feels different and deeper than an orgasm that is based on clitoral stimulation alone.
I get emails from time to time from women asking me about how to find their G-spot, or telling me that they can’t find it, or asking me if they are squirting ejaculate or not, etc etc. I try to be as helpful as I can, but as each woman is different it takes a lot of practice and trial and error when paving the way to female ejaculation. Some woman are natural ejaculators and it comes very easy to them, but usually it takes a little more work in finding the G-spot and learning to stimulate it with the right pressure and pace that works for your body. The thing I really loved about the Crystal Wand is that upon insertion, it found my G-spot for me so easily! How did I know After inserting the rounded end of the dildo with a little bit of water-based lubricant on the tip, I slide the toy inside and felt the curved end rest inside of me. I grasped the other end of the dildo (the pointed end) and thrusted the dildo once, and immediately felt it stimulate my G-spot with the tell-tale “feels like I have to pee” feeling. No other G-spot dildo has ever made finding my G-spot so easy! The pointed end of the dildo was easy to grasp, and the lightweight feeling of the acrylic made it comfortable to rock against my G-spot. I also could hold a vibrator at the pointed tip, and the vibrations traveled very nicely through the acrylic body and I could feel the vibrations reach my G-spot.
I would highly recommend this dildo to women who have yet to find their G-spot, or those who are new to G-spot stimulation. This toy would be great for those who love G-spot stim but find that their current G-spot toy is a bit heavy or bulky. Many woman have squirted for the first time while using the Crystal Wand dildo, and upon using it, I can see way. The shape, size, curve, and light weight of this toy makes it ideal for female ejaculation! I found that I felt as though I could squirt quite easily while using this toy! As matter of fact, this may be my new go-to G-spot/squirting toy – I love it that much! I felt comfortable using it, it made G-spot stimulation so easy and relaxing, and it helped to create a squirting O. This was the best dildo I have used for female ejaculation, and I can’t say enough about it, it’s great and a wonderful addition to my collection of toys. This toy is beneficial for G-spot newbies and those who are interested in squirting for the first time. This toy has even been showcased in Penthouse Magazine, and has been featured in HBO’s Real Sex series. I really appreciate the respect Cynthia Lamborne’s want to help women embrace their G-spot and awaken it’s fountain of ejaculatory waters. I think her product is fantastic and it would have been so so helpful when I was first learning about my G-spot and trying to find it. I would highly recommend this to women who are curious about ejaculating and have yet to do so, this may just be the product to help you!
Cynthia Lamborne also runs Pelvic Therapy Products which offers products and sexual health products to doctors, medical hospitals, and gynecologists. Cynthia told me that a lot of hospitals, sex therapists and physical therapists have been buying The Crystal Wand. She also told me: “There is a new division in the Medical Field of Physical therapy called “Pelvic Therapy”. Women with health conditions such as Vaginismus and Vulvidenia are instructed in use of the Crystal Wand to help alleviate pain, tension and numbness in the Vagina as well as other symptoms that create female problems. Hospitals such as Kaisser Permanente are now using it with great results”.
For more information about the Crystal Wand check out LoveNectar.com – The Crystal Wand is only $35.95, highly recommended!
