Archive for July, 2010

Fleshlight Girls Jenna Haze Forbidden

July 30th, 2010 @ Amber St. Clare

One of the newest Fleshlight Girls textures to hit the market, is the Forbidden, which is Fleshlight’s new anal orifice made for the most real anal sex experience that money can buy. Introducing the Jenna Haze Forbidden, a male masturbator that was molded directly from Ms. Jenna Haze’s ass! Sorry to say guys, but this is probably the closest you’ll ever come to fucking Jenna in the backdoor, so I think this was a cool product that Fleshlight recently added to the Fleshlight Girls line. Like all other Fleshlight masturbators, the Jenna Haze Forbidden comes with a Fleshlight opalescent case, the Superskin insert, a packet of lubricant, and a pre-printed autographed postcard of Jenna Haze. It also comes in a neat collector’s tin, you can store the Fleshlight in the can, or even re-use it, it has a photo of Jenna *and* her ass o it, so it’s a keeper, ya know? ;) The Superskin is a patented material that is meant to feel like real skin. It’s soft, squishy, and it feels good to touch. The outside of this specific toy offers a tight little anal cavity, molded straight from Jenna Haze’s ass, and it features a raised detail of her autograph. The light fleshtone color is meant to make it appear more realistic, as well as the little puckered asshole opening. The Fleshlight comes ready to use, and it’s easy to set up, and to clean out afterwards, since the Superskin is reversible. After you’re done using the toy, turn the masturbation sleeve insideout, wash it with warm water, then leave it inside out for it to dry completely, then put the toy back in the case until ready to use. You’re also supposed to keep it nicely powdered between uses to keep the Superskin soft and to keep it from getting sticky or tacky. The Fleshlight case comes in two parts, the top twist off cap, and the fleshlight body, which is supposed to look like a large flashlight, hence the Fleshlight name. Now let’s take a closer look at the surface of the toy, shall we…

The detail is pretty cool. The orifice looks realistic, and it’s fun to touch. I lubed up two fingers and slide it inside of the toy. The orifice is squishy, stretchy, and feels good. I slid my fingers further into of the toy to feel the unique Forbidden texture, which offers a textured canal that is tight and meant to feel like a real ass that you are fucking. It feels pretty awesome. Not exactly like an ass of course, but pretty darn close. I like how the canal feels inside, tight and featuring textured bits in the canal the deeper you penetrate. I used a dildo inside of the Fleshlight and could see how the toy was gripping the dildo, so I would guess that if it had been a real cock, it would be pretty awesome. Since I don’t have a cock, I decided to get a male opinion and passed this toy onto a friend, who was more than happy to give it a try.

Fleshlight Girls Jenna Haze Forbidden got rave reviews from my friend, who said that he thinks the texture may be his new favorite Fleshlight texture. He sais that the tight texture and the tight opening really made him feel like he was experiencing anal sex, and then he quickly admitting to using the toy while watching one of his favorite Jenna Haze porn films. He said it made his experiment with the Fleshlight “pretty quick” ;) and that he had to take a break and re-test in a few hours later. He used it that time without a visual aid, and he said the experience was just as awesome. He also liked the look of the orifice since rather than a simply hole or opening, it really does look like an inviting anus. I have to admit, if I had a dick, I’d probably want to fuck this toy too. I like how the canal feels, I like the look of the toy, and I like the feel of the soft Superskin.

I think this toy would be awesome for men who want to try anal sex but who haven’t gotten the chance, or for fans of anal sex that don’t get the chance often. You can get your hands on the Jenna Haze Forbidden Fleshlight for $58.80 at LoveMeDirty.com! Their prices are awesome, their customer service is great, and their shipping is fast and discreet. Don’t worry guys, your order will come in a pain box, NO label telling the contents of the box, your purchase is *your* privacy. They also offer FREE SHIPPING on orders over $50 and there is a free gift with every order!

I also received the Screaming O cockring with my package. This cock ring is so cute! It comes in a peach colored stretchy TPR material that fits around the base of the cock, while the top of the ring holds a small vibrator that offers clitoral stimulation to your partner, an vibration to the base of the cock. This ring is disposable, so it will only last you one time, and it offers 30 minutes of vibration from the battery. After that, you can simply throw the ring away. Since it’s disposable, it’s also really affordable, you can get the Screaming O for $3.90! Check out the Fleshlights, cock rings, and other male, female, and couples sex toys at Love Me Dirty.

Simply Blown Large Silky Glass Dildo

July 27th, 2010 @ Amber St. Clare

It was lust at first sight when I saw the Simply Blown Silky. This dildo is gorgeous! I’m a big fan of glass sex toys, and to me, you really get what you pay for. I refuse to use cheap quality sex toys, especially low quality glass toys, so I’m very picky about my choice of glass toys. Let me just say, that I adore Simply Blown! They are one of my very favorite glass toy brands. Their toys are stunning to look at, feel fabulous and high quality in the hand, and feel sinfully sexy in the body! I recently tried the Large Silky, in the pretty Amethyst color. This dildo is one of my prettiest sex toys. The purple color is bright, the purple glass is slightly domed beneath a layer of pure clear glass, and it makes the glass on the surface of the toy looks so gorgeous! I also love the packaging that the Simply Blown Silky Large comes in, the box is quality, not cheap at all, made of a firm and thick box with a little peep-show plastic window that you can see the toy displayed through. The toy is craddled by a thick foam that holds the toy in place so it doesn’t move around in the box.

Since the to is glass, it can be cooled down in the fridge or warmed up in a bowl of warm water. Also, since it’s seamless, and completely glass, it’s waterproof, and is easy to clean. It can also be used with any type of lubricant of your choice, including silicone lube. The tip of the toy is rounded, and the shaft head and base of the toy is completely smooth. The base of the toy is flat, so the dildo can sit up right on a flat surface, and the base is also flared so you can use the toy safely during anal use if you wish. This dildo measures in at 7.5 inches in length and 1.5 inches in diameter. So it’s definitely a large sized dildo, perfect for those who enjoy the feeling of toys that fill you up. Since this toy can be used for vaginal or anal use, this leaves your clit free for some other sort of stimulation, so don’t be shy about pairing this dildo with your favorite clit vibe for some extra fun ;) I also think this toy would be fabulous for couples play, and the toy itself is so pretty that it would make a great gift for your lover.

I adore this dildo! I had an awesome time teasing the round end of the toy against my clit. The silky smooth feeling of the glass was tantalizing on my naughty bits. Also, with the super smooth glass, it made the lubricant not only longer lasting but also a little lube goes a long way with glass toys. The toy is definitely big and doesn’t have a tapered head, but after warming yourself up with some foreplay or a little self love, it’s a lot of fun to slide the Silky inside of your vagina. I liked the feeling of the cool glass inside of me, the toy warmed to my body temperature quickly and the flat base of the toy made the dildo easy to grasp and thrust. The dildo is a little heavy, as it’s thick glass, but not so much that it made my hand sore. It fit nicely in the palm, and the weight of the toy just added to the sensations. You can angle the rounded tip of the toy to tease your G-spot, or use the toy for shallow or deep thrusting. I’ve yet to try this toy anally, but as it’s a but too big for my intermediate booty, but maybe someday ;) This toy is becoming a favorite of mine. It’s pretty, it’s sexy, and it makes my pussy feel awesome! Such a high quality product, and I can’t wait to try even more Simply Blown toys in the future.

Want to drool over your very own gorgeous Simply Blown Silky? If Amethyst purple isn’t your thing, the toy also comes in Ruby red, Aqua and Emerald green. Also, if Large isn’t your thing, Simply Blown carries this dildo in a Small and Medium size too! Get yours now at KamaSutraCloset.com!

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Kama Sutra Closet nominated for 2010 AVN “O” Award!

July 15th, 2010 @ Amber St. Clare

Big congrats to one of my very favorite sex boutiques online, Kama Sutra Closet! They were nominated for a 2010 AVN “O” Award for Best Sex Boutique! I love this shop and they very much deserve the nomination. Heres to hoping they win. Hey AVN give em’ a O! ;)

Check out the other nominees here: http://www.avnnoveltyexpo.com/OAwardsShow/categories.html

OhMiBod G-Spot

July 15th, 2010 @ Amber St. Clare

I’ve always thought that the OhMiBod brand was so much fun. Suki, the owner is an awesome lady, and she really does strive to make quality toys for her customers. So I was excited to try the OhMiBod G-spot vibrator, since it’s one of the only OhMiBod toys I’ve yet to try. I love the bright bubblegum pink color of the vibe, and the slim shaft, and curved tip. Sexy! It also comes with it’s one velour OhMiBod storage pouch. Like all OhMiBod toys, it’s designed to be used with music, or any other sound output of your choice, but it can also be used as a standalone vibrator. Choices! See, I like that. The toy requires two AA batteries, and it comes with input wires for you to connect the toy to your cellphone, mp3 player, iPhone, or whatever other input you’d like. It also comes with a rounded end cap that can be used when you want to use the toy without music. The toy is easy to use, and the vibration settings are easy to navigate with a twist of the endcap. The endcap is made of plastic with silver colored coating, and the body of the toy is made of what appears to be body-safe ABS plastic. The toy is easy to clean, as you can wipe it down with a  toy wipe or use your favorite toy cleanser. The toy is *not* waterproof, so you want to keep moisture away for the endcap. You can use this toy with silicone lubricant or water-based lube also.

I decided to try the toy without music first. I screwed on the rounded end cap and went to town. The vibrations are nice, not too weak, but definitely not real strong. The toy isn’t super loud or buzzy, but it’s not super quiet either, but you can’t hear it through a closed door. I used the curved tip on my clit, and then teased it over my nipples. Insertion was pretty easy, and the 7 inch shaft of the toy makes it pretty easy to use the toy internally to find the right spot when you can stimulate your G-spot. I didn’t find the internal vibrations to be super amazing, but they were moderate. I found that I liked the toy more using it to thrust along with the vibration. After warming up a bit, I attached the 5 foot freedom cord and attached my iPod. I chose a fast paced song and let the toy vibrate along with the rhythm of the music. That part was fun for sure! How cool is it to be able to fuck your favorite song? Which i did, over and over. You can even plug the end into a microphone and let your lover talk into it, so the toy buzzes along with their voice. Lots of fun ways to use this toy! I liked the music aspect of it, even if the vibration stimulation wasn’t super strong. It’s definitely a unique experience to be able to stimulate yourself to a playlist of songs, or even plugging the toy into a musical output like a guitar or keyboard. I definitely like this toy for the fun appeal!

You can also use this for some couples play. Lay back in bed and let your partner pick a random song on your mp3 player and then try to guess what song is buzzing away in your naughty bits :) While this toy isn’t my favorite G-spot vibrator, it’s unique and offers a fun interactive experience for anyone who truly enjoys music. Sex toys + music = a no-brainer. It’s a great idea, and it’s a fun little toy that would also make a great gift! Wanna feel the music? Get your own OhMiBod G Spot for $62.99 at FunLove.com

Nexus G-Rider and Nexus Glide

July 12th, 2010 @ Amber St. Clare

Recently I got the chance to try some of the toys from the Nexus range. While Nexus offers a wide variety of male toys, they also offer products that are unisex and can be used by women also. So when Nexus emailed me to ask if they could send me a few products to review, I jumped on the chance. I got to test the Nexus G-Rider and the Nexus Glide. The G-rider is a fun looking toy made of soft supple silicone. It comes in various colors but I received the pink one, which is actually pretty cute. It looks almost like an anchor which a flared base that is curved up at one end, and the other end is textured with silicone nubs. Up the body of the toy, you can see that it curves and then has a pronounced curved tip. It looks like a really fun anal plug, right? Well, it’s not just a plug, it vibrates! You need 1 AAA battery (which is included), and you can browse through 5 vibration settings from a gentle vibrating to a more deep resonating vibration pattern. The body of the toy is perfect for G-spot play for women, as you can use this toy in the vagina or the ass. In men, the curved tip and body is made for P-spot stimulation. I found this toy to be really fun to use! I liked using it internally in my vagina, as the curved tip vibrated, and the little nubs on the base could brush my clit when I used the toy sitting down. Anally this was great too! The curves in the toy make for an interesting feeling, and I really liked the internal vibrations. The toy was easy to clean, and it worked very well with my favorite water-based lubricant. As much as I liked this toy, I am female, and I highly recommend this toy to any one with a prostate ;) In a man, the anal walls grasp the shaft of the toy, and the curved tip can stimulate the prostate, which can produce intense orgasms. This toy is fabulous for couples play too, with the male wearing the G-rider, while having sex with their partner, or have your partner wear the G-rider in his ass, while you stimulate his penis with your hand or mouth. Explosive! ;)

I’m by no means a selfish lover, so I wanted to give a male opinion of these toys also. So I entrusted the Nexus Glide to a certain eager male that I know, who was more than happy to play the role of guinea pig. Unlike the G-Rider, the Glide is made of Medical grade polypropylene, rather than silicone, and instead of nubs for external stimulation, it features a Stainless steel roller ball massager. Since this toy isn’t silicone, it can be used with silicone based lubricants for easy insertion and removal. Also, this toy is a massager, but it doesn’t offer vibration, so no batteries are needed. I really like the look and feel of this toy, because it’s slim and non-intimidating for anal beginners. I also like the shape and the slightly curved head, as well as the unique roller ball feature. This would be an awesome choice for men who are interested in trying anal play, but don’t have any experience in that area. My male test partner had amazing things to say about this toy! He loved the shape, the easy of insertion, even though he is a relatively new player in the game of anal toys. He said that the curved head of the toy worked against his prostate even without vibration, and that the roller ball feature was awesome for massaging his perineum. He liked the fact that the toy didn’t vibrate, because he could stimulate his penis manually, and feel his body’s natural movements internally as the toy moved in his ass. The curved head presses against the prostate and gives it the firm pressure it needs to produce a nice mind blowing orgasms. The flared base of the toy makes it easy to remove the toy also, and ensures that the toy doesn’t get lost inside of the anus. He said the toy was comfortable to wear, and that it wasn’t too big, so it didn’t make him feel intimidated, still being somewhat of an anal play novice. This toy is awesome for masturbation, but it can also be awesome for couples play. You can have your lover hold a vibrator against the base of the toy to send vibrations up and down the shaft of the toy. You can also stimulate your partner orally or manually while he wears the Glide inside of his ass. My male test partner said he had an awesome super intense orgasm that made him climax harder than he may have ever done before. He said he thinks it’s a great toy for men that are curious about anal stimulation but don’t know how to start. I agree, I think this is an awesome toy, perfect for beginners where as the G-rider might be best for intermediate anal players.

Awesome toys from the Nexus range, looking forward to trying more. I’m so glad I can now recommend Nexus toys to all of my male readers!

Njoy Pure Plug Small

July 10th, 2010 @ Amber St. Clare

With Njoy, it’s love at first plug. Njoy makes beautiful toys made of medical grade steel that is perfect for vaginal play and anal play, but the Pure Plugs really shine when it comes to booty play. The Njoy Pure Plug Small is gorgeous! It comes in the signature Njoy black gift box with bright pink satin-esque lining. One end of the plug is slightly curved and bulbed, while the toy gets slimmer as you move down the shaft, while the other end offers a flared base with a wide fingerhole for easy removal and insertion. I love the feel of the steel! Cold, even when at room temperature sitting on my body. The great thing about this plug is that it can be cooled or warmed up too. You can soak it in warm water, or pop it into the freezer for some temperature play. Also, the toy can be boiled to be fully sterilized. Steel toys are easier to clean, in my opinion, as they aren’t porous like other toys and plugs that are made of plastic. Also, because of the ultra smooth body of the steel, a little lubricant goes a long way, and I have found that my lube seems to last longer with use on my steel toys. This is the smallest Pure Plug that Njoy makes, with the bulbed end girth being 3.5″. The handle is easy to grasp, and the curve of the bulb makes this plug great for anal play, and P-spot play in men.

One great thing about steel toys, is that they have a nice amount of weight to them, which can really add to the stimulation when it comes to anal play. I love the sleek feel of this toy, and it’s a great anal plug for beginners or intermediate anal players. This toy is high quality and could last you for many years to come because of it’s steel body. It’s easy to clean, and can be used in the shower or in water, and it’s comfy enough to wear for long periods of time. This is one of my favorite anal plugs! I find that the weight adds nice stimulation when I walk, and the plug is even comfortable when I’m sitting or laying down. I like using the plug as I masturbate, but it can also be used during partner play, oral sex, and penetration. Even the flared base fits nicely between the asscheeks, and it isn’t uncomfortable. The Njoy Pure Plug Small can be inserted by using lubricant on the head of the plug, as well as lubricant on the anus. Go at the right pace for you, whatever makes you feel comfortable. Some people who are used to anal play will find this plug very easy to insert, others who might not be as experienced may need to try two or three times to get it right, but once the plug is in place, it’s a real pleasure. The tapered head makes insertion fairly simple and easy, but you can also insert the head of the plug by inserting the plug as if you are buttoning a shirt, pressing against one end of the anus, and then pushing over and upward. I highly suggest this plug as it’s sexy, fun to use, easy to use, and it’s a toy that novices and pros alike can enjoy. Get your Njoy Pure Plug Small for $59 at Pink Cherry sex toys.

Bswish Bnaughty Deluxe

July 8th, 2010 @ Amber St. Clare

I remember trying the Bswish Bnaughty bullet a few years ago, and being impressed with this new company, Bswish, and looking forward to more of their releases. So I thought it was really neat when I recently found out about their new updated version of the Bnaughty, the Bswish Bnaughty Deluxe. This egg/bullet vibe is so cute! I definitely like the design and style in this upgrade. It’s a gorgeous violet color with detailed sides of silver. Like the original Bnaughty, the deluxe version, is waterproof and offers a control that features 7 functions of vibration, and is easy to use and navigate. The control fits in the palm of the hand very easily. One difference is that the egg is smaller, and the toy is much more discreet. It requires 2 AAA batteries, and the power is nice for a egg vibe of this size! I like the small egg end because I can nestle it into my panties and keep it in place while it stimulates my clit. I can also slip it inside of me and let it buzz away internally. Since it’s waterproof, I can even take this in the shower with me! Actually, that is how I first tested this toy, in the shower. Even with soapy hands, the control was very easy to press the buttons to changes between speeds of vibration. I liked the highest speed best, and I loved the smooth sleek plastic feeling of the bullet as it stimulated my clit. Cleaning the to was a breeze also. I used a toy cleaner wipe, and it worked wonderfully. However, you can use your fav toy cleaner, or mild anti-bacterial soap and water. You can also use this bullet with your favorite lube, water-based or silicone. You can also slip a condom over the bullet if you want to use the toy internally, for easy clean up, or if you plan on sharing the toy with a partner. This bullet is also small enough to use during sex. You can hold the bullet against your clit during from behind sex, or girl on top sex. Let your partner hold it against our clit in missionary sex, or let him/her spice up the oral sex with a little added vibration from the mini egg. I definitely like this deluxe version better than the first edition Bnaughty. Highly recommended for those who want an affordable egg/bullet that is versatile and works well ;)

Get your Bswish Bnaughty Deluxe on sale right now for $28 at Kama Sutra Closet. If Violet isn’t your color, this toy also comes in Black or Ruby. Both available at Kama Sutra Closet.

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Comstock Films Xana & Dax: When Opposites Attract

July 6th, 2010 @ Amber St. Clare

Comstock Films does not make porn. They make erotic documentaries, as I like to say. Tony and Peggy Comstock, the married duo behind the film company, really has a knack for documenting true sensuality on film. I first became familiar with Comstock Films a year ago, and I’ve really been hooked ever since. In this particular release, Xana and Dax: When Opposites Attract, we are introduced to a sexy couple who, though they are opposites in a lot of ways, are extremely passionate lovers. Xana, a busty blonde with a super sexy body and creamy fair skin, is the slightly more experienced partner of the two. She isn’t shy about what she wants and desires, and when she first laid eyes on Dax, he was exactly what she knew she needed to have. Dax is more quiet and soft spoken, his dark eyes and olive skin give him a sexy exotic look, but don’t let his laid back demeanor fool you, he’s just as passionate and sensual as his more experienced counterpart. This DVD starts out with Xana and Dax talking about their relationship. What they like about each other, what turns them on, and how they first met. You can instantly feel a close bond. They look at each other like a real couple…because that is what they are! Absolutely no casting, or “gonzo” reality is present when it comes to Comstock Films, they are indeed the real deal, and only work with real-life couples. I love this about them, and it’s one of the reasons I find their films so highly erotic and sexually enthralling. As the couple talks, they smile at each other, laugh together, they are flirtatious, while maintaining the integrity of the interview. This film is classy. I’ve never seen sex portrayed this way on film before. I don’t feel like I’m watching a DVD, I feel like I’m having a conversation with friends, I feel like they are opening up to me, the viewer, and sharing a part of their sexual energy. It’s delightful, it’s original and refreshing….sadly, that is something that is lacking in the world of erotic film.

As Xana and Dax talk, you genuinely like them from the get go. I like that when they are talking about their love making, they look at each other, and you can truly feel the connection caught on screen. Xana slightly blushes when Dax says what he finds so sexy about her, he talks about her breasts, just one part of her that turns him on so much. I loved that real response! The real human interaction that is cut short in most films that respond only to penetration and cumshots. During the interview, it cuts away and shows small little fragments of Xana and Dax having sex. Kissing first, touching, licking, sucking, stroking. While I was watching the interview, I found myself looking forward to the little glimpses of what was to come. It was such a delicious little tease! To hear the couple talking about their differences, but how their love is still fiery and passionate and then to see a shot of Dax sliding his cock into Xana was extremely sexy! I so looked forward to each little hidden morsel that would be injected into the interview.

Once the interview was over, we get to see the entire session of love making between Xana and Dax, from start to finish. Once again, I found myself feeling as though I were watching friends make love. It really is a personal experience when you watch a Comstock Films movie. I don’t feel as if I am being voyeur through the hole in some seedy hotel wall, instead I feel as though I am being invited right into the bedroom with this couple! They start out with kissing, lots of passionate kissing, that really caught my attention. I could feel the spark in their kisses. It led to touching and caressing between the couple, you could see that Xana knew exactly how to touch Dax, and he knew exactly what to do to her to drive her wild. These two people really know each other, they really understand each other, and it comes off so brilliantly that I almost get a little teary eyed while viewing it. They aren’t rushing to get each other off, like we see in pornography, instead we are seeing another sort of film making, a real erotic experience caught on film. It was so sexy to see Xana stroke Dax’s cock just the way that he liked it, the way she always strokes it for him, but for us to bear witness to it. Seeing his face contorted with pleasure, and the look of true delight on her face while she watches his body react to her touches. I really liked watching her perform fellatio on him, seeing her look up right into his eyes, and him looking back…just a reminder of how sensual the act of oral sex can be. I loved seeing him run his hands over her curves, playing with her breasts, and kissing and licking them with care. They do an awesome 69, and I loved hearing them both moan, and seeing Dax’s fingers slide over Xana’s pussy…he touches her pussy so delicately and lovingly, yet with such appreciation and lust, that I couldn’t help but get hot and bothered. Dax licks Xana’s pussy like he enjoys every minute of it, and you can tell that he truly does.

[Screenshots: copyright ComstockFilms.com]

The shots are brilliant, bravo to Comstock Films for not only capturing this experience on film, but for the amazing camera work. The close up shots had me drooling, the angles of the different sex acts had be staring in awe. I loved the sex positions also, as we see Dax enter Xana’s pussy from behind, she rubs her clit as he slides in and out of her. We see his tight fit body move against her womanly curves, as we see her eyes roll back into her head as he penetrates faster and faster, her breasts swaying to his movements. We see her climb on top of him and ride his cock, while looking down at him with a pretty smile on her face, she presses her body close to him, leaning forward to kiss him as her hips rock back and forth against his cock. He buries his face in her full breasts and sucks her nipples into his mouth so intensely, like he needs them to survive, and it just amps up the scene that much more. They are making love like they need each other, like they desire each other, like they truly love each other, and it’s absolutely stunning and humbling to watch. I love watching the couple climax, and as the scene ends we see Xana suck Dax’s cock until he cums, we see him ejaculate as she swallows and licks it from her lips, some of it drops onto his hipbone, and after kissing and caressing his cock more we see Xana lick it up from his hip, and that part just about made me swoon with desire. She crawls up to him and they hold each other, kissing as they gaze into each other’s eyes and smile. When they kiss we see a tiny little trail of cum from Dax’s mouth to Xana’s mouth, his cum that she just licked up. It’s not planned, it’s real, and that is what I love about that small little detail. To me, no porn director could ever have scripted something so sexually arousing, which is why I would never ever call Comstock Films series of DVDs porn. The whole experience is like a documentary to me, we learn about the couple, not from some dreadful made up story line, but from them openly talking about themselves and each other. There is no cheesy set up or props, there is the bed, and Xana and Dax, and really…that is all we need. Thank you to Comstock Films for aiming for another kind of film making, another kind of erotic film, a sensual documentary about the erotic energy that is born from loving, enjoying, and respecting your partner. This DVD is amazing. If you’re new to Comstock Films titles, I highly recommend this, and if you’re already a fan of these films but have yet to see Xana and Dax: When Opposites Attract, I also highly recommend it. This DVD also was: Winner of the Hottest Straight Sex Scene in 2006 from the Emma Awards! You can also watch the Xana and Dax trailer for the film, it’s NSFW, obviously.

Comstock Films Xana and Dax: When Opposites Attract DVD at Funlove.com

Have a summer fling…with the NobEssence Fling!

July 5th, 2010 @ Amber St. Clare

How gorgeous is this sex toy? Yes, it’s a sex toy! A deliciously handmade dildo from NobEssence. NobEssence dildos are quality, luxury items, that are also eco-friendly, so eco-friendly in fact, they are practically one with the earth…each toy is made of wood! Most people probably wouldn’t think twice about using wood as a sex toys, but honestly it makes a lot of sense. Wood, when properly taken care of and finished, is healthy for the body and there won’t be any worry about splinters. The wood is coated in NobEssence’s own Lubrosity coating, which is considered to be to medical standard, and gives a shiny/smooth surface, which allows for better use with less lubricant. Check out the pretty box hat the Fling comes packaged in. So cute! I love it, the top slides off from the base, and then slides back down to close it, where the top and bottom slide to fit like puzzle pieces. You can use the box for toy storage or re-use the box for something else. NobEssence Fling measures around 7 inches, with a 1 5/8th girth. The color and type of wood varies with each toy. NobEssence uses various kinds of wood, and each wood is quality and ready for toy use. The Fling that I received was made of Mora wood, which is a sweet yellow-white wood. The body of the fling is smooth, it’s pretty lightweight. One end of the toy is a rounded head that is bulbous and slightly curved, then the shaft gets slender, and the other end of the toy is round and flared with finger holes for you to grasp the toy.  It can be used inside the vagina for G-spot stimulation, or in the anus for anal stimulation, and prostate stimulation in men.

The body of the Fling is sexy, and I liked holding onto the toy and sliding it all over my body. Teasing the toy over my nipples, pressing it against the curves of my neck, down my stomach, along my hips, and resting it against my vulva. The round head felt nice pressing against my vulva, nearly kissing it as it contoured against the folds of my skin. I used a little bit of YES Lubricant, on the head of the toy, and literally only needed a dime sized drop. YES Lube is fantastic, the feel is smooth and soft, and not sticky. It’s also a very safe lube and is made of natural ingredients such as Aloe, Water, and Flax Extract. It’s free of parabens and other icky ingredients that shouldn’t be marrying with your naughty bits. I found that this lube worked great with the wood finish of the Fling. I teased my clit with the bulb of the Fling, and then added a vibrating bullet to the stimulation and teased my clit with the bullet as the ling went to work on my G-spot. I found insertion of the Fling pretty easy. As long as you’re excited and you pair it with some of your favorite lube, it should go smoothly. After inserting the toy, I could feel it press against my G-spot quite nicely. I enjoyed the full feeling that the wood gave my vagina, but I also loved how lightweight it felt in my hand as I grasped onto the handle and worked the toy against my G-spot. I took one of my favorite vibrators and held it against the base of the Fling, and I could feel the vibrations vibrate nicely through the wooden shaft of the toy, which added a little bit of vibration to really set things off. Then i got down to business and payed attention to the true feelings of the Fling inside of me. It felt awesome! The YES Lube was a great pair too, as I could feel myself needing a tiny bit more lube, I simply added one more drop of YES. The entire masturbation process probably only took a nickel sized amount of YES. The finger holes in the base of the Fling made it easy for me to grasp the toy, and I could even grab it with both hands and fully stimulate my G-spot with hard firm thrusts. I loved it! Somehow using this toy made me feel very sexy and erotic, like Mother Nature was sharing her naughty little secret with me. I came really well while using the Fling, the G-spot orgasm was intense and fulfilling. I actually can’t take my eyes off of the toy as I’m sitting here writing this review, I’m looking at it lovingly while remember our roll in the hay just a few hours ago. I’m actually thinking of taking the toy for a second test drive when I finish writing this review…

My fling with the Fling was a passionate it one. It was a sexy one. Though our first encounter was brief, it left me with a longing in which only the Fling can bring release from…This is my very first true wooden toy, and I’m hooked. Can’t wait to try some of the other NobEssence toys! I’m also so glad that I got the chance to try YES Lube, it’s been on my want list for while now, because of the pureness of it’s ingredients. It didn’t win the Ethical Small Business Award for nothing, ya know! Oh, I forgot to mention, the Fling was really easy to clean. You can use warm water and your favorite anti-bacterial soap, you can use sex toy cleaner wipes, or your fav toy cleaner. You can also boil the toy to sterilize it. As since the Fling is made of wood, it’s waterproof, and can be used in the shower, pool, or bathtub. Fling just may have replaced my bathtime rubber ducky ;)

You can find the NobEssence Fling and YES Lubricant at EcoSex.ca, a fantastic Canadian run sex toy shop that caters to eco-friendly sex toys. The shop is run by two sisters too, how amazing is that?? I love that kind of girl power! You can get the Fling for $160 and YES for $9 at Ecosex.

P.S. I just had to include this adorable photo of Kim and Amy, the two sister’s who started EcoSex! They have their own company called RedTentSisters.com